Unit 2 - Section 3: Thanks and Apologies

Thanks and Apologies

Learn how to express gratitude and apologize in Japanese. These phrases are essential for polite daily communication.

Expressing Thanks
ありがとう(ございます)
[Arigatou (gozaimasu)]
Meaning: Thank you
Use "ありがとう" casually, "ありがとうございます" politely
どうもありがとうございます
[Doumo arigatou gozaimasu]
Meaning: Thank you very much
More formal and emphatic
ありがとうございました
[Arigatou gozaimashita]
Meaning: Thank you (past tense - for something that already happened)

Apologies

Different Levels of Apology:
ごめん / ごめんね
[Gomen / Gomen ne]
Meaning: Sorry (casual - used with friends)
ごめんなさい
[Gomen nasai]
Meaning: I'm sorry (polite)
すみません
[Sumimasen]
Meaning: Excuse me / I'm sorry (polite - very versatile)
Can also mean "excuse me" to get attention
もうしわけございません
[Moushiwake gozaimasen]
Meaning: I'm very sorry / I sincerely apologize (very formal)

Useful Polite Phrases

ねがいします
onegaishimasu
Meaning: Please / I request
Used when asking for something or making a request
どういたしまして
douitashimashite
Meaning: You're welcome
Response to "thank you"
いいえ
iie
Meaning: No / Not at all
Can also mean "you're welcome" (casual)
失礼しつれいします
shitsurei shimasu
Meaning: Excuse me (when leaving/entering)
Used when entering/leaving a room
失礼しつれいしました
shitsurei shimashita
Meaning: I'm sorry (for the interruption)
After leaving or interrupting
おそります
osore irimasu
Meaning: I'm grateful / Thank you (humble)
Very polite expression of gratitude

When to Use Each Phrase

Situation Japanese Usage
Someone helps you ありがとうございます Formal thanks
Friend gives you something ありがとう Casual thanks
You bump into someone すみません Quick apology
You make a mistake ごめんなさい Sincere apology
Getting someone's attention すみません Excuse me
Entering a room 失礼します Polite greeting

Practice Dialogue

At a store:

A: すみません、これをください。

A: Excuse me, I'd like this please.

B: はい、どうぞ。

B: Sure, here you go.

A: ありがとうございます。

A: Thank you very much.

B: どういたしまして。

B: You're welcome.

Cultural Notes

  • Frequency: Japanese people say "thank you" and "sorry" much more often than in English-speaking cultures.
  • すみません versatility: This word can mean "excuse me," "sorry," or even "thank you" in some contexts.
  • Body language: These phrases are often accompanied by bowing. The deeper the bow, the more sincere the thanks or apology.
  • Context matters: Choose the level of politeness based on who you're speaking to and the situation.
Study Tips
  • Read each example carefully
  • Practice pronunciation aloud
  • Create your own sentences to reinforce memory
  • Finish the section quiz